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Bonding In Marriage

By Gboyega Adedeji       May 14, 2015

Bonding In Marriage

Marriage is a global phenomenon that has become a victim of media criticisms and debates. At one extreme of the divide is the opinion that marriage is a necessary evil; at the other extreme is the opinion that marriage is a necessary good. However, there is a general understanding of the influence of marriage on societies and the attitude of people that come out of it.

Marriage literally implies union, but the true implication of marriage is the Union of a male and a female module of human. Man was created by God to exercise dominion on earth over the creations of God. But before man could get any significant thing done; God made a statement that created the first and the perfect model marriage in the history of man.

...And the LORD God said, "It is not good that man should be alone; I will make him a helper comparable to him."
Genesis 2:18

That Scripture above is the foundation for the emergence of marriage and woman. Hitherto, man was alone, living and working out the will of God as God's empowered ambassador or envoy on earth; but at that moment, God, who had earlier said that everything that He had created was good - noted that it is not good that man should be alone. Loneliness in life and in work is never the will of God for man; God desired and still desires that every man become united with the purpose and the gift of God for his life and destiny.

If you observe that Scripture very carefully, you would see that marriage was not man's idea; and it was not a product of prayer or careful planning......rather, it was God's creative and proactive idea. You see, at that point, Adam had not yet complained of loneliness; and he did not ask God for it. However, God moved ahead of him to make provision for his future needs - not even want. Adam needed a woman in his life, but at that point, he did not even know it; however, God provided the woman. That tells me very strongly that man did not invent marriage, and marriage is not a choice; nor a luxury. Marriage is a necessity, but unlike those who think that marriage is a necessary evil; I have discovered that the experience of every man is a product of his expectation. If you think marriage is a necessary evil, you will surely experience evil all your days in marriage; however, if you understand that marriage is a necessary good, then, good will not cease in your union.

The strength of any marriage is in its originality and sincerity. If your marriage is not a right or truthful marriage, you will not have a strong impact or life on earth. These days, different things bring people (I mean males and females) together; some marriages come to be because some people commanded the couples to marry; some marriages also come to be to settle old scores; and some marriages are products of politics. However, I have discovered that it is what BRINGS a marriage together that KEEPS it together. When I was courting my wife - Omolara; I had a particular understanding that helped me. I knew that if I had to beg her to marry me; I will need to beg her daily to stay with me in marriage. Let me ask you, "What is the need for marriage when the couples never intended to STAY and STICK together?" Many marriages have come and gone, and we have heard to stories of people that only marry for a stipulated period of time. What is pity? Marriage was inaugurated by God to ERADICATE man's loneliness and to PROVIDE a suitable (comparable) helper to man.

Unfortunately, some people have gone astray in their own modeling of marriage, they now use marriage to achieve their own agenda. Remember, it was God that gave the man a work to do; and He went ahead to provide him with a suitable helper for his life and his work. But today, many people now use marriage to achieve their personal ambitions. Most people will not bother knowing the person that God had designed and fabricated for their life and work; they simply go around shopping for wives and husbands as if they are buying horses or cars.

And the truth is, if you "buy" your wife with money; she will only stay with you as long as you have more money. In short, WHATEVER or WHOEVER bring you and your partner together, will equally KEEP or GLUE you together. True marriages are not contracts or products that expires with or in time; true marriages are God-made; they are for life!

Therefore, bonding is not only good in marriage, it sustains marriage and ensures that God's purpose is not aborted. Usually, every woman is custom-made for every man; and God is the sole allocator of women to men. If you remove yourself from your partner in marriage, you have successfully removed yourself from God's purpose for your life and work on the earth. And remember, no honour or glory is available for ex-convicts, nor is there any glory for ex-champions; therefore, there is no honour for any man or woman that separates himself or herself from God's purpose in marriage. God took time to make you and He poured so much value into your life. He did not do it for fun, but for a purpose. He did it to make you complementary to a man or woman as the case may be; when you accept His will in marriage, don't just get excited momentarily and fade off in time; settle down to discover and appreciate the gift of God for your life in marriage. For if God brings you into a marriage, He alone must keep you there daily for life!

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