Lack of understanding is such that can cause spouses in the relationship to withdraw from the process of leaving and cleaving. There are tons of reasons for lack of understanding; but I will like to wear a blue hat in this article, so we can help one another to achieve maximum return on the time invested in reading this piece.
Like we established in several articles on this series, there is no perfect spouse in any marriage, it is only spouses that have been perfectly understood over the years. Keep your heart always on the possiblilty of understanding anyone, no matter the relationship you have with such individual. it transcends marriage relationship, to parenting, office relationship, neighbourhood relations and so on.
By keeping your heart always on the possibility of understanding; I mean, you have to stay positive to grow any relationship. There is no nut that is too hard to crack, if you have the requisite appliance or tool to crack it. That is the way every individual is, in all relationships. The right appliance or tool here, refers to the requisite understanding needed to deliver wisdom for such relationship.
Getting understanding is so essential for the success of any relationship. The word understanding has been so mentioned and I imagine someone asking, what is understanding. Undersanding is having insight or good judgment. It also means being sympathetically aware of other people's feelings; tolerant and forgiving. It can also be generally referred to as the ability to understand something; comprehension.
I advocate for understanding and understanding for success in any relationship. Let us pause and fix any spot that is lacking in our relationship for success and continual success.